People ~ The Greatest Gift Of My Journey
by Lena
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This was going to be another last post on Marrakech, before my departure to Fes…
But since I hate goodbyes, decided to make this post about the true reason many of us pack our life in a backpack and leave behind our loved ones, security and comforts of home…
It’s the People.
Yes, all those faces and many, many others, have danced their way into my heart.
Let’s be honest here,
I’m not an easy person to deal with, period.
I have faults and demons. I’m human.
Do recognize that I may have hurt some people at one point or another in my life.
Some left… don’t blame them. Some stayed and I’m forever thankful.
But all of them have taught me priceless lessons.
A lot of people ask me why I have the need to pick up and go.
After traveling for years, can say that the main reason would be – to learn how to;
LOVE more
FORGIVE always
ACCEPT everyone
LET GO when it’s time
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* Yes, going for a gorilla trek in Uganda is awe-inspiring, but having child of a total stranger fall asleep in your arms, is so much more!
* Agree, spending a night or more in Sahara is breathtaking and is a priority of many bucket list enthusiasts. However sharing food & laughter with a local nomad woman is even more unforgettable!
* Visiting Marrakech – the best destination of Africa in 2012 was great! But it wouldn’t be the same if I haven’t met Mouna, who invited me to her home to share food with her family and more than once. Her family became my Moroccan family, who’s hearts and door of their home remain open for me.
* Seeing The Big 5 at the Masai Mara National Park ( UNESCO World Heritage site ) was extraordinary! But having a Masai Warrior save me from almost being Lion’s dinner… was, well, honestly, it was an experience I will never forget!
* Yes, jumping out of a perfectly good airplane, in the middle of one the most coldest Russian winters in 50 years, is somewhat insane, but it’s even more crazier to be jumping with a true Legend of the sky and then dancing with him while flying through the clouds.
* Reconnecting with your inner-self in Bali is like being born again, but having local children draw you beautiful drawings for you to take home, is not something you can get at an all-inclusive package deal from a travel agent.
* To walk with lions in the wild, bungee jump into a river full of alligators, get in a fight with a female baboon and hang on the edge of the most dangerous pool in the world, would be adrenaline junkie’s dream come true! But a true highlight for me, was seeing the faces of kids from Lubasi Home and having an intimate moment with a mute woman by the road who sold me bananas.
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* To try the Best Tapas at ” TAPEO” is truly one of the things that one should do when in Barcelona! But becoming friends with the owner and with the whole staff of this amazing place is a totally different story. Because when you have your last dinner there, your eyes fill up with tears.
* To connect with a fellow traveler is great and many people experience this everyday on the road. But to have her leave you a heart, made of your own scarf, that she left as a surprise for you, after you let her use your shower, is not something you can forget.
* To visit The Great Pyramid was my dream, but the Pyramid became even Greater, because I was able to share it with an incredible woman. That day was so much more than just being at one of the 7th wonders of the world.
* To be able to walk in the footprints of the great Paul Bowles and other famous artists in Tangier is inspiring. But to be following those footprints with a famous French writer, whom I met in Marrakech, was a totally different experience. She unveiled a very different side of Tangier to me, the hidden side, the one, not every traveler gets to see. She even introduced me to a Russian lady, Elena, who happens to be a relative of one the Russian Empire Noble Families.
* To see The Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco is truly an incredible sight. But to dance in the local musicians drum circle, in the middle of the street and having homeless people laugh with you, is one of those moments that come to my mind when I remember
that great city.
* Zanzibar has to be my favorite Island in the whole world. It’s rich with history, beautiful architecture, has the most wild, unspoiled beaches and heart-stopping sunsets. But the story of me trying to persuade a bank manager on a Sunday morning, to get my “eaten” card back, is classic! Or showing my guide something even he has never seen in Stone Town, in all the years he worked as a guide… the look on his face was priceless.
* Being in one of the most bizarre and truly mesmerizing restaurants in Chefchaouen, Morocco, that has artworks everywhere, which are not for sale, is a one-of-a-kind experience. But to have the owner who spend 9 years in India, get so inspired by you, that he draws several drawings and gives them to you as a gift, is truly humbling. His drawings I will treasure for as long as I live.
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I could go on and on about all those people and all those moments.
Journey is about the People you meet and the moments you get to share with them.
If you have the courage to open your heart to this world and run towards life with your soul wide open, there’s a chance that you will get wounded. But if you don’t give life that chance, you will never truly fly.
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Yes, I have had bad things happen to me because of people, we all have those stories.
But the reality is, that the number of people who want to lift you up, is much greater than the ones who want to watch you fall.
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I want to thank each and one of you who come to my “online home”. You have lifted me up in more ways than one.
I feel stronger, because I have such an amazing team, who always have my back!
Some of your comments made me cry, others made me laugh to the point of tears.
But all of your comments and wishes made me feel loved.
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And isn’t that what we all truly want?
Is this not the reason we strap on a backpack and dive into the unknown?
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I want to thank every single person who has entered my life, good or bad.
Thank you for teaching me how to dance & never touch the ground.
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LESSONS PEOPLE TAUGHT ME
If you want to hear the truth ~ Listen to your heart.
If you want to fly ~ Don’t be afraid to break your wings.
If you want to forgive ~ Ask for forgiveness.
If you want to be a good dancer ~ Dance with your soul, not your feet.
If you want to get to the top ~ You have to touch the bottom.
If you want to be free ~ Don’t lie to yourself.
If you want to heal ~ Cry, Laugh, Breath & Let go.
If you want to be rich ~ Help someone.
If you want to find You ~ Get lost.
If you want to learn ~ Change.
If you want to feel loved ~ Love.
If you want to be happy ~ Be.
02/07/2013 © Elena Levon
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The woman behind the words …
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Well said! You’ve touched on many joys of travel and why a lot of us are addicted to it. You’ve spoken the truth thru your wisdom, thoughts and from the heart. Thank you for sharing.
Lena
Your post definitely awakens my desire to travel, to leave the complacency of everyday routine… Which is nice too… I love to travel but always seem to find myself going back to the same places I don’t necessarily want to see, constrained by money, time off work, children… I would love to take my son and husband and be a nomad on this earth like you seem to be. Experience it all!
Beautifully expressed in words and photographs, Elena. Thank you!
To say thank you does not suffice. To be able to live a life of adventure through your words and pictures is such an incredible gift you have given me and many others. And not only the adventures, but your heartfelt thoughts. Thank you and thank you again. You are truly blessed.
Have you been to Tanzania?
yes
i want to go to the Serengeti. Have you written about it on your blog?
haven’t been there was in Zanzibar. I was in Masai Mara ( Kenya ) and it was incredible!!
yes i read that blog of yours. i might end up doing similar.
Hi El
in my recent blog post on Oman, I put two related links at the end to your site posts. they go well with this story.
check it out.
http://larkycanuck.com/2013/02/12/larkycanuck-com-travel-adventures-oman-an-oasis-in-the-desert/
Beautiful post and so true about traveling. It isn’t always about the places you go but the experiences you share with others.
What a bright light and breath of fresh air you are on this planet, thank you your words inspire me and lift me up.
Thanks for reminding us that no matter where you travel and how many amazing things you see, the people you interact with really make the strongest impression. Your words and pictures are incredible!
Dearest El, I so look forward to your posts and beautiful photos and this post you have gone right to the heart of travel. I so agree with you, with out opening your heart and interacting with the wonderful people you meet on your travels that journey would be a barren parade of seeing things that you could look at in a travel video. The things I remember the most and the longest are the people. Your photos capture the spirit and character of all those amazing people you have met. Thank you for sharing them with us, your blogging friends.
Elena, you made my heart stop and my soul crack as I read this beautiful open hearted love letter to all of us. Yes, it’s all about people and connecting and loving. You are a beautiful soul.
Those words, those pictures…
So glad i found you and your blog today.
Thanks for the inspiration
Beautifully expressed.. and photographed. Thanks for sharing – and for visiting my blog too. Blessings from Bali ;O)
Wonderful and amazing it was to read your experiences through your emotions and photographs,they reflect every bit of your sensitive side . Thanks for letting us be a part of your journey Elena!
Elena, you have put the pieces of Life together well with your posts and photos. You have found that taking a meal together with the local people is more important to your being than all the photos of great places and monuments. I remember to a time in the early 80′s when I took a fish soup meal with a poor family in Budapest. The meal was so much for them to offer to me and that meant everything. May God Bless your journey, and may we cross each others path perhaps over a meal in some distant land, perhaps in Africa, in the years to come. For I know that travel will never be over for you. Bon voyage, Jean-Bernard.
Elena, Thank you for sharing your heart, defined through the brave journeys you have created and beautifully mastered. You are a nexus in this chaotic and fluid world. I do hope we get to cross paths in the future. When you found my blog while I was in Uganda, I had this feeling we would eventually meet along this life journey, somehow, somewhere. Will you be back in L.A anytime soon? Let me know, for I’m In SF…melswier@gmail.com
http://urbanjusticeuganda.wordpress.com/
I absolutely agree with you on the lessons learned… Only after five years of traveling all around the world – you could say, after getting lost (more than once in the strangest places, I can tell you that!) – do I have the slightest clue about who I am and what I want from life. Your four points sum it up amazingly well: LOVE more, FORGIVE always, ACCEPT everyone, LET GO when it’s time…
Please read my latest post too, I am pretty sure you’ll like it :-)
http://mgmlanguageandleisure.com/2013/02/08/live-while-im-alive-n-sleep-when-im-dead/
Beautiful post, Elena. :)
love, love, love this post…thank you!
Dear Stacey!! Thank you!! So great to hear from you!!! I missed you!
all my love,
lena xoxox
Hi Elena,
I hope you don’t mind. I had to share your post in my facebook wall because it’s such a good read.
Thank you for sharing.
Lea
share away! and thank you!
What a wonderful piece and a surprise so soon after your last one. I knew I was going to enjoy it before I even clicked on it. Truly wonderful. Sometimes I think I could print your pieces out and out them on a coffee table and just spend a lazy Sunday afternoon reading them but regardless, they are often in my heart and it’s nice to know there are others who enjoy the true meaning of travelling during those times when I am not.
LOVE!
It just goes to reinforce that the journey has less to do with the destination than the people you meet along the way.
I wish I had your confidence and obvious ease with people. It’s something I’m really going to try to focus on building up on our trip. Any tips?
People are always such a big gift, during any journey. Thanks for sharing such wonderful photos!
I love this post! I’d love to follow your footsteps but it’s not possible! I’m going to print your lessons and bring them with me all the time though!
Incredibly inspiring reasons for backpacking and invaluable lessons for us all. Thanks for sharing!
I hope to be in one of your photos one day.
i hope you will be ..
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Fantastic photo journal. I want to go to Marakesh.
Elena, what you wrote was absolutely beautiful! Your pure joy experienced in your travels is clearly evident in your wonderful pictures.
The lessons people taught me. So true. A lifetime of truth in a few phrases.
A joy to visit.
Thank you, Elena, for your post!
Wonderful lessons, indeed.
You are an inspiration!
I love Vienna! But have been there a long time ago! It’s time for another visit! ) Thank you for your comment!
Gosh – I almost feel as if I am there with you! Its so nice to see the appreciation in the so called ‘small things’, which obviously are so much more than that – no matter where in the world you are. You are blessed to have these experiences.